When You Realize That It Is Time To Leave

Lily Evans is a thirty year old creative non-fiction writer. As she approached her thirtieth birthday throughout her last few days as a twenty-nine year old, Lily had a mental breakdown. “I wasn’t happy in my marriage, or in my career. I had known this throughout my twenties, but I never had that honest conversation with myself or my partner about my life. I didn’t want to acknowledge it, because I was scared of leaving.”

If you have ever been divorced or have separated from a long-term relationship, then you can probably relate to the fear and distress of leaving that familiar and special someone who you love and can’t seem to live without, but are simply not meant to be with.

“We would end up in an argument every weekend. He was very set in his ways. I was too much of a free spirit for him. And before turning thirty, I realized that I wasn’t willing to sacrifice any more of my happiness and what I wanted for the sake of a relationship and career that wasn’t fulfilling me anymore.”

Lily says that after her mental breakdown, she knew she had to leave behind the life she had always known throughout her twenties. In order to summon the courage to tell her then-husband, she spent two days in isolation, journaling her thoughts in her laptop. It helped her to process the separation. “Writing is therapy to me. It’s cathartic; it’s how I release the pain.”

Woman in Gray Shirt Sitting on Bed

If you are going through a breakup or divorce right now, you are not alone. With the rate of divorce being reported at 39% in recent years, many are likely to find themselves going through that same process of loss, heartbreak, and grief. Perhaps it isn’t that more and more couples are finding themselves at odds with one another, but that traditional beliefs about marriage and stigmas against divorce have become less and less widely held in the last decade.

When it comes to divorce, the United States legal system can be a nightmare to navigate through. It is highly recommended that you seek legal advice from a licensed professional to guide you through this difficult time of upheaval. We wanted to highlight Shuff Law Firm, experts in divorce and family law in Orange County. The firm employs ABA Certified Paralegals as a part of its diligent and detail-oriented team. The firm makes communication a number one priority in serving its clients. Established in 1974, the firm was founded by Attorney Joseph A. Shuff, III, who led the firm toward exclusively practicing family law. His daughter, Attorney Tamara Shuff Mortensen, joined her father in 2006 as a Certified Family Law Specialist. Together, they have over 40 years of combined legal experience in a vast range of cases.

If you need to file for a divorce and are seeking specialized law firm or family attorney in Santa Ana, you can give Shuff Law Firm a call. They have a reputation for providing clear and practical estimates on divorce, custody, and property case outcomes while seeking resolutions in the most timely and cost-effective manner.

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